Warning Relationships Move FAST in Thailand
You know, even after all these years this can still catch me off guard. You meet a beautiful Thai girl in Thailand and before you know it…she is your “girlfriend” and living in your home.
You don’t complain because she makes life easier. You receive sex and blowjobs whenever you want. When you check email in the morning, she’ll make you breakfast. After that she’ll clean your house. Then she’ll play around on youtube until it’s time for her to go to work.
She’s a “good girl”. She never wants money, she only wants you NOT to have sex with any other girl.
It’s nice, but still. Once she leaves for work, you ask yourself,
“How the fuck did that happen? I’ve only known her 4 days and now I have a girlfriend. Damn things move fast in Thailand.”
This is not uncommon in Thailand, but is actually quite common. Here is a recap of a recent experience of mine that you can learn from:
One month ago I visit a friend at his apartment. While having a beer I see one of the hottest Thai girls I’ve seen in a long time walking into another apartment.
I ask my friend about her. Apparently she has a boyfriend, moved in a few weeks ago, and works at a restaurant.
She is really fucking hot, but I make a point not even to talk to her. Stealing another’s girlfriend from right under his nose often leads to trouble that I try to avoid.
– One month later my friend mentions they broke up. I wait one day and get a drink at her restaurant around midnight.
– She somehow knows my name and gives me a hug as I enter. (Apparently my reputation isn’t all bad)
– As I drink, we chat. I get her phone number. I ask when she is off work, she says 1am. I ask if she wants to chat and get a drink after work, she agrees but says she doesn’t drink alcohol.
(I’m impressed, a Thai girl that hot and doesn’t drink. Quite rare.)
– We meet up with some of my friends. She is 19 and can’t get into the club. (You have to be 20 year old to enter a club in Thailand…or have a fake ID). However 500 baht later, I bribe her way through the door.
– She comes to my home later that night.
– The next day she goes to work. She asks me if I want to see her after work, I say yes.
– She does and brings a small bag with a change of clothes and her computer.
– She goes to work and leaves her computer at my place, a toothbrush, and a few clothes. After work she tells me that some foreign men were hitting on her at work.
I asked her what she said, and she told them that she had a “boyfriend”.
– Earlier that day my friend sees her as she leaves for work. He warns me, “She’s hot. You better be careful. Because there many others waiting in line for a chance at her.” (I believe him. She is one of the best looking girls that I’ve seen in awhile.)
– Later that night after work, she comes back to my home and brings another small bag of a few clothes.
– She makes me breakfast and cleans my home. She is sitting on my sofa watching some Thai show on youtube.
I know that I’m fucked. I didn’t stick to my rule of only letting a girl stay over at my home maximum two nights a week. (My normal way of managing multiple girls at once.) I got caught up in enjoying the sex and wanted her back in my bed as soon as possible.
Now that she “moved in”, if I ask her to leave it will be too obvious that it will be because I want a different girl.
Normally I don’t care about my girl knowing that I’m with more than her, but I already know two guys that are ready to jump on her once she leaves. Besides that, she made it clear that once she finds me with another lady, she won’t come back to me.
(I usually call bullshit on this because you can get almost every Thai girl to come back after you cheated on her, but I haven’t spent enough time with her to create the “hook” point for that yet.)
So I’m fucked!
HOW I FUCKED UP
1- I let her leave stuff at my home
2- I allowed her to refer to me as her boyfriend
3- I let her stay over more than one night in a row
4- I didn’t make it clear that I was sleeping with other girls
(When I met her, I played the good boy card. I did this because she broke up with her boyfriend because he wanted to fuck new girls on Friday and Saturday nights. But only her Monday thru Friday. I award him for his style, but he wasn’t able to pull it off.)
Well, since I’m not ready to give her up. I have to play the boyfriend role until I either get bored of her or start to like her more.
Either way, she is definitely hot enough to keep my attention for a little while.
Although I try to avoid it, there is nothing wrong with having a “girlfriend” in Thailand. You just have to be more creative when you want to sleep with other girls.
Posted on Gods of Thailand October 1, 2012 in Stories from Gods of Thailand, Thai Girls, Thailand, Tips & Advice