Simple Method – Sex With Good Girls in Bangkok Thailand

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Hey Everyone,

It’s the beginning of May and I’m having an amazing time in Bangkok. There are a few new hot spots that I’ve been trying out to great success…more on that soon.

Today I’m putting the simple method I use for taking home good girls on “paper”. Hope you find it helpful:

Meeting and taking home “good girls” in Thailand isn’t all that difficult.

It really comes down to three steps:
1- Approach
2- Be Fun
3- Bring Her Home

Occasionally “good girls” will approach you, but you can’t really rely on this. You will often need to take the first step.

Step 1- Approach

The younger and cuter girls often will not approach you. These are the girls that may glance in your direction once or twice. If you make eye contact, she may smile then look away. This is when you need to approach.

But be careful young Jedi, you don’t want to be seen as the drunken foreigner loser that talks to every Thai girl and is seen getting shot down every 5 minutes. (This doesn’t matter if you are going whore hunting, but looks bad if you are “good girl” hunting.)

You want to come off as a “good boy”.

Approach, say something clever, or just ask what her name is. Then transition into step 2:

Step 2- Be Fun

“Good girls” in Thailand go out to party because they want to have fun. So be fun. Smile, play drinking games, take her hand and spin her around. Just relax and enjoy the company of a beautiful woman.

Also, it will help if you know a couple Thai words. I don’t speak Thai, but there are a few words I ALWAYS use when I meet a Thai girl:

– How are you?
– Cute
– Smile
– Pain (Use it playfully if she is playing hard to get. Think arrow through the heart.)

If you learn these four words / phrases in Thai, you can have a pretty entertaining first conversation with any Thai girl.

Step 3- Bring Her Home

Normally this is a two-step process. First, move her to a new location. Then take her home.

If you met her at a standard night club in Bangkok, take her to an after party nightclub like Scratch Dog.

If you met her at a late-night club, try to take her to your home first. If that doesn’t work, take her to get some food at McDonalds or some cheap Thai food.

If she is playing hard to get, give her a huge and say,

“I like you and I know you like me. Come with me tonight. No sex, just cuddle.”

Then picky swear…

It’s crazy, but these fucking words are golden!


Posted on Gods of Thailand May 1, 2013 in , ,


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  • stevie weevie says:

    I want to get to know the south of thailand–only stayed up north in chiang mai–im on a budget 1000 a month u s dollars. Not the best of health but getting a lot better but any advice about exploring the south of thailand – such as ko phi phi other places not too expensive–possibly to get a cent apt for 6000 or so baht a month plus utils? Somethings interesting to do– water related for the most part–Don’t like bkk. from what i’ve seen big dirty stressful city–dopers etc–looking for something quiet but with interesting modern facilities -that is architecture, museums etc.
    Im almost 64 would ideally like to find a real “keeper” to comfort my whipped body and comfort to the heart, And once i’m stronger–to help making a good living maybe even back in the usa? Any suggestions as to how to meet etc.? One more big thing–i think its best to find an “orphan” I got used but the woman’s family but hell– it was all my fault. She was very lovely to look at until near the end– fact is i am convinced she is a lesbo, But not to complain–just asking what to expect from a “good girl” Never liked the taking out half the barangay for dinner on the first dead. That stuff id over for me-not acceptable, steve

  • Sanjeev says:


  • santosh says:

    Hi! We are unknown about thailand. On 20th of october we r comming to thailand without any guide but we dont have any idea where to go from airport. So could u pls suggest me after arrival where to go and what to do. We want to visit various places of bangkok thailand as well as disco & bars. We want to enjoy with girls too. Plsss reply me.

  • Mr. Pan says:

    Where I can find school/university girls for fun, please mention the places and timings. My age is 30 years and I am from Singapore. I work at Bangkok now. Thanks my line is panlovethai1

  • Montagne says:

    I’m working in bangkok for over 6 months now…i am kind of shy to approach initially and open up slowly…I have found it’s difficult to approach ‘good’ girls as they seem quite elusive…probably my luck hasn’t worked…your site is quite informative…could yoou give some tips on how to find decent girls to make friends

    • Hey Montagne,

      Yeah, we’ve all been there.

      Start with “Hi”. You’ll find that most Thai girls are very friendly. And a simple “hi” can lead to a phone number…which then leads to a date…which then leads to whatever you want.

      You don’t need to be a great pick-up artist to meet women in Thailand. You only need to put forth a little effort…

  • sanjiivv says:

    Where I can find school/university girls for fun, please mention the places and timings. My age is 55 years and I am from India. I am visiting soon to Bangkok. Thanks

  • Deric says:

    Hey there I am put together a small trip of 12 guy going to Bangkok like to keep them have fun if you know what I talking about

  • Sayeed says:

    I have visited Bangkok only one time. I don’t know much regarding these. I want to know more and hope to visit again.

  • Jason says:

    Hey, I am a frequent monger to Bangkok and Pattaya. Thanks to Gods of Thailand website, it’s all started from here… Woot! woot!
    As part of my work, travel frequently and spend most of my weekends there. And all this for past 6 months 🙂

    Now despite the massage shops, go-go and the Disco’s, I am looking for more adventurous and GFE type experience. Appreciate if you could help here, any FR’s or reference will be greatly helpful.


  • Sam says:

    Hiya Mate,

    I’m new in Thailand and look so bored, would you be kind please to advice and where to find good Boom Boom? to my hotel room?


  • chuck says:

    is it safe to go down on thai girls

    • That’s a matter of opinion and preference. Personally, I pass unless she is my actual “girlfriend”…which is very rare.

      While other guys will lick every pussy possible. Including GoGo girls right on the stage in the middle of everyone.

  • Reno says:

    Hi Seven,

    Thanks for the great comments. I have one big question which I still need some advice on. In other countries such as Singapore, China, Taiwan or Europe where girls go out together in groups of 2 or more to clubs to dance and have fun (and sometimes meet guys); this approach is quite simple, as you can make eye contact and approach them either at the bar or dance floor when they are dancing etc. However, in Thailand, from my experience first of all Thai people (and I am referring to good girls, forget about the bar girls) don’t really like to dance that much. Their style is much more of a live band bar where you go with your group of friends including both males and females and order a bottle of whiskey and drink together and sing to the live band’s songs. Even in RCA clubs like Route 66, it’s the same story, I rarely see girls alone, or in groups of 2 (like I do in China, Taiwan etc.) Actually most of the girls I have seen alone who make eye contact and smile at me in my experience turn out to be undercover bar/working girls. 98% of the good girls are in their groups of friends with other guys, and so even they make eye contact with you, it is not the most convenient place and time to approach them like that. Also, since they don’t dance much and just stay in their same space/sofa/table with their friends it makes it very difficult to do the initial approach stage.

    What would be your suggestion for this? I would like to approach these good girls more without getting into trouble with their group (who knows if the guys in the group are some rich thai mafia guys) lol! Also, which bars/clubs would be the best ones for foreigners to pick up good girls easily?? I cannot believe picking up good girls in thailand is so much harder than say Taiwan or China!



  • j k ved says:

    I m travelling with my wife. we are senior citizens. Would like to enjoy and experience sex with local females to-gether. Please suggest how and where should we visit ? Also send any other information.

  • prem says:

    are thai girls get attracted to indian men n black in complecsion ?

  • michell says:

    good luck catching them STDs. Everytime I see a foreigner in my country (Philippines) all I see are bunch of opportunists scumbags. God I hate how this world is. People seem to think that using people is some sort of a hobby. They are humans, if people would stop collecting fuck buddies. Perhaps this world would become a better place, woman would start respecting themselves and men would have more morals and respect towards themselves too. Piece of advice, if you are a foreigner coming to Asia for “FUN” don’t even think of having a family of your own, cause by just thinking of fucking around and sleeping around for a cheap price or for free, completely describes you that sort of being that doesn’t deserve to have a loving wife and children. So just keep working your ass off til you get old (trust me, you guys should listen and do this part), and make sure you will retire for work with huge amount of pensions, because as you get older, you will need lots of money just to satisfy your lust or even just to have a woman to keep you company. Even then, you will just end up as another “sugar daddy” in a young woman’s mobile contacts. Good luck with your lives bro. Hope you all would wake up someday and realize, by changing the world it starts with in you.

    • Roger says:

      Get off your christian high horse and live and let live. Then again I never knew that prostitution was the main direct cause for something bad that happened to you. I’d rather have a wife, then a kid, then when the wife gets old and fat and the kid is more understanding, divorce, move to Thailand with liquidable funds. Better than going to church to pray to a false god.

    • Feminst death says:

      It all starts/ends with women.
      When women close their legs, hookery stops.
      Women should do the right thing and reject this behaviour at all costs.
      But no, they want a scapegoat for their failings.
      Every time i see women taking the easy way out, Asian or Western, all I see are bunch of opportunists scumbags blaming everyone but themselves.

    • Free and loving it! says:

      Holy shite you are a holier than thou piece of work! Did you know that the Christian morales and dogma you are professing is exactly why this world sucks. Pent up anger and frustration are all that come from that type of conservative Puritanism. Pre-Christian societies that didn’t hinder freedom of expression in any form were some of the most peaceful and happy peoples to ever roam this earth then…Christian missionaries came and taught them to be ashamed of walking naked or having sex openly or just about anything that ever brought them happiness! Check the histories of the Hawaiians, Aboriginals, et al. It’s not to say they never had disputes, but they were known for being extremely happy! Being judged by small minded men with small phalluses is the worlds problem!

    • Isaac Ned says:

      Ooh, Mr loser can’t find his own kind to love and fuck him! hahahaha….. His compatriots (fillipinos) prefer foriegn men with no moral or ethics but with shit loads of money! hahahaha…..Loser go home and cry! This is reality and learn to live with it. Without these low moral men coming to your country to invest and holiday around(sex tourists), what will your country be like? Typical bible bashing no brain fillipino again! met too many in BKK. Likes to kiss ass and talk bullshit, when it gets slightly rough they will scream out MURDER! hahahaha…..

    • Reality007 says:

      Lol..! Seems like he hit a nerve with a few who responded. 😉 The reality of it is thought that there is a lot of truth to what he said. Sex can be like any addiction. You can desensitize yourself to a large degree, and obviously this makes the chances of having a successful relationship with a wife and family very difficult later in life. That has nothing to do with religion either. If you spoil yourself too much you will have trouble being content later. In the end it’s all about having your eyes open with what you choose to do. It’s not a life that everybody should live, or it would play havoc with society. In the old days it was adventurers who lived such lives, not the common man, and I reckon that is about the right way things should be. Not everybody can or should live in the same way. Also, if we play the heartbreaker we must acknowledge we affect others and their lives could go a different way because of that, even if it is their free choice.

      • Meidich Hoertz says:

        That’s why it’s called a vacation, dipshit. All of this moralizing and finger wagging is a desperate ploy by those who either can’t compete, or don’t have the balls to admit what they want.

        Michell writes, “Piece of advice, if you are a foreigner coming to Asia for “FUN” don’t even think of having a family of your own, cause by just thinking of fucking around and sleeping around for a cheap price or for free, completely describes you that sort of being that doesn’t deserve to have a loving wife and children.” First, I don’t think anyone contemplating a trip there is asking some broke-ass loser like you for advice. Second, who are you to judge what we do or do not deserve? This pathetic attempt at cockblocking just demonstrates how consumed you are by jealousy. Then, you project your sick little revenge scenario, claiming we’re doomed just because we might partake of the WILLING women of your country. Furthermore, coming as I do from a country whose GDP in two weeks is about the same as your country’s is for the whole year, I’d like to point out that our largess is a benefit to your economy.

        To the other moralizing pricks here, just telling the girls to be “good” is fucking laughable. First, they don’t subscribe to the same draconian morals system as do you, which is just a thinly veiled system of social control to benefit a hierarchical organization–i.e., the church. Second, such advice is utterly divorced from reality; for many of these girls, being a “pro” or “freelancer” is what puts food on the table for their families. Hell, even “good girls” often get financial support from farangs, which in turn also supports families. Many of them are uneducated and many of them who are still have few options in Thailand’s economy.

        My point? Try practicing a little gratitude for the “evil farangs” who “invade” your country. As long as these transactions are consensual, it’s really none of your damn business. Oh, and get a hold on your jealousy.

  • Chris says:

    Makes sense….thanks!

  • Chris says:

    The tricky part is not how to get women in Thailand but how to have one-nightstands or short term relationships without getting in too much trouble. Meaning Thaigirls usually get clingy very fast and act very jealous and even harm you physically when breaking up. So I would prefer some guideline about that.
    Maybe I am doing something wrong but I haven’t found that much girls are keen for one-nightstands or being your fuck buddy (not talking about bargirls).
    So I stick rather to bargirls than to the dating scene even though I would like to date but like to avoid the breaking up stress.

    • Yeah, that’s one issue that many foreigners get stuck with…the breakup.

      My advice is just be honest and stick to your rules. For example, if she asks if you have another girl, say yes. When you tell her that she has to leave in the morning because you need to work, make sure she leaves.

      The problem begins when you let the girl stay over multiple nights in a row. This in her mind will make her think she is your girlfriend. Tell her you never have girlfriends, just “special friends”.

      But on occasion, you will meet the girl that will go psycho when you break up, it happens to everyone. Just make sure you have your valuables locked away and threaten to call the police or the manager of your hotel / apartment.

  • CJ says:

    “No sex I swear?” Your word is not worth much eh?

    • “Human communication consists of 93 percent body language and paralinguistic cues, while only 7% of communication consists of words themselves.”

      So technically, I’m only lying with 7% of my communication. LoL, I’m okay with that…

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