Is It Bad to Pay For Sex in Thailand?

Paying for sex in thailand

Short Answer: Fuck No!

Long Answer: Keep Reading…

Coming from the United States, we are bred to think that paying for sex is wrong.  Only losers and celebrities pay for sex.  And if you pay for sex, you are supporting the mafia who kidnaps children and forces young girls to get addicted to hardcore drugs.  That’s about right,  isn’t it???

Well, not exactly.

Am I against the Russian mafia kidnapping children for slave labor?  Fuck yeah.

Do I support that by going to Thailand and paying for pussy on occasion?  Nope!

Here is a list of why it is not bad to pay for sex in Thailand:

1- A Woman’s Right To Choose

I firmly believe that a woman has the right to choose.  If she wants to have an abortion, let her.  If she wants to work 60 hours a week at a factory in Bangkok making 300usd a month, go right ahead.  If she wants to freelancer herself out at night, fuck guys that interest her, and make more money than she knows what to do with….so be it.

2- This is Not Slave Labor

Even the most hardcore whores who work in Pattaya Thailand have the right to walk away at any time they want.  Maybe she started after high school because her older sister bragged about how much money she made.   Maybe she started at 25 because she got tired of her Thai husband continually getting drunk and beating the shit out of her because dinner wasn’t perfect.

No one is forcing these girls to do anything they don’t want to do.

3- These Girls Have Money

Let me tell you a little secret that most foreigners don’t know; the whores you fuck probably have more money than you.  These girls are cleaning up.  The cost of living for most Thai hookers is ridiculously low.  And when they want something on the expensive side, they find some foreigner who will buy it for them (examples: cars, homes, shopping sprees, etc…).

4- They Are The Con Artists, Not You

If you think by paying for sex you are dehumanizing women in the prostitution trade, you are wrong.  More times than not, you are the one getting “played”.  A hookers strategy for making money is very simple:

-Meet a foreigner who will pay for sex
-When he goes back to his home country, she pretends to be in love with him
-She convinces the man to send her money.

She is doing this to 5, 10, or even 20 men at the same time.  I’ve met girls that will just go down their Skype list saying the same thing to her foreign “boyfriends” until she makes a thousand USD in one day.

“My mom is sick”
“I need to pay rent”
“I love you and I wait for you, but I need money”
“My family’s buffalo died, now my family can’t eat”

The story will change but the ending will always be the same, “I NEED MONEY”.

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Even the worst of us may think of Thai hookers as mere objects of pleasure.  But that’s not very different from how they view us:

Walking ATM Machines

Posted on Gods of Thailand September 23, 2013 in , , ,


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  • Graham says:

    Hi, amazing website! I’ve decided to take the plunge and booked a girl from Looking forward to that! Its the first time i’ll pay for sex and first time in Thailand. I’m travelling solo for 2 weeks, got any tips for meeting drinking buddies etc?

  • Kirk says:

    are there any bar girls as such or special massage parlors in or within walking distance to khoa san road or soi rambuttri

    • I’m sure there are, but I don’t spend much time getting massages on Khao San Road, so I don’t have much as far as recommendations.

      As your walking by a shop that looks like it may have potential, simply ask “Do you do special?”

      Simple as that.

  • Brian says:

    I’m going to Everest Base Camp tomorrow for 2 and a half weeks and then will spend four days in Thailand to relax and enjoy. One night will be in Bangkok at the Bangkok Marriott and then three nights at the Marriot in Mai Khao Beach in Phuket….is that within walking distance to Bangla Hotel? It’s a fancy hotel which is being paid for by accumulated points but my only concern is if it’s close enough to the action and Bangla Road. What would you recommend?

    • Martin says:

      That Hotel isn’t very close to Bangla,I don’t think…Also,the Hotel may charge you to bring in a extra guest…Take a taxi to Bangla and hang out there for awhile..Take your girl to one of the many short time hotels in the area…instead of back to your fancy digs..just my 2 cents

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