Expert Tips for Online Dating in Thailand

Expert Tips for Online Dating in Thailand
Thailand really is a goldmine for online dating because so many Thai girls want to meet a foreign man. They also love “playing” on dating sites and Facebook.

The abundance of female choices doesn’t mean that it’s “super” easy to get laid. Because you still have to weed through the scammers and deal with the amount of guys on these sites as your competition competition. This article is about giving you a couple of tips that will give you the best results for the least of amount of time input.

1. Beware of money requests

If you know anything about our website, this one is obvious. Many girls online will come to you with a sob story about a sick mother/son/buffalo etc. who now need financial help to pay the medical bills.

You might laugh and think that nobody could be so stupid to fall for these lies from a girl you have never even met in person, but loneliness and the promise of love and companionship from a sweet Thai woman will do funny things to a man’s brain.

2. Get started early (but not too early)

Online dating has a “lag time” from when you join the site and start messaging girls to when you start getting interest and phone numbers.

For this reason, if you start contact the girls on Thai Cupid an hour after the plane lands, it might take a couple of days for the first girl to come through and agree to meet up with you. This is no good if you are only in town for a few days.

Because of this lag time, I recommend you start messaging girls 2-4 weeks before your destination date. That will give you enough time to build rapport with her so that she will be comfortable meeting up with you the day you arrive.

Keep these two fundamental tips to online dating in Thailand in mind and you will soon have a phone book full of beautiful Thai girls wanting to meet you. Seriously, it really is that easy.

3- Join Thai Cupid and Thai Friendly

These are the two best dating websites in Thailand. Don’t waste money at clubs hoping that you may talk to a girl or two. Be smart and efficient by meeting Thai girls online and have them excited to meet you even before you arrive. and are gold mines for meeting some very attractive Thai girls online.

Click here to read our tips on how to easily meet sexy Thai girls!

Posted on Gods of Thailand May 7, 2016 in


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  • Harrison says:

    I was the first guy to take you up on your offer for a free consultation 5 years ago while i was in the Caribbean.
    I have been in Pattaya WITHOUT LEAVING for 4 1/2 years now. It truly is a mans Paradise!!
    Regarding the dating site Thai Friendly I have found the bulk of the girls want to make contact only if you are here in Pattaya and they are ready to meet you on a moments notice for 1500 ~ 2000 Baht Short Time. Most speak Passable English. I can’t say what girls in other parts of Thailand are looking for but the girls in Pattaya are in it for the money. There are plenty to choose from and of course beware of the scammers. Don’t fall for the BS sob stories. There are a million of them. Take care of business, pay and move on. If you are looking for a fun roll in the hay without all the bar scene hassle this works very well. No bar fines and it’s pretty much straight forward on what is expected by both parties. Pay to play… No money No Honey!! This may be of use to some of your followers.

  • Johnny G says:

    I completely disagree with you about messaging girls 2-4 weeks before coming to Thailand. From experience, most of the girls I chatted with wanted to see me as soon as possible. Because those girls get bombarded with thousands of messages every day, any correspondence that goes over a week, you are guaranteed to end up being forgotten. Keep it short and sweet, and leave some element of mystery. Don’t give the girl time to start getting comfortable asking all the personal questions, and acting all crazy because she thinks you are now supposed to be only interested in her and you no longer have a reason to go online. My advice is to go live (by posting pictures, because that’s all they look at) no more than a week before traveling to Thailand. Trust me, I’ve been in the online game for 6 years now, and following the above strategy has awarded me with huge lists of girls that wanted to meet me from which I picked and chose.

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