Secrets to Online Dating in Thailand
For this post, Seven shares his advise on how to become MASSIVELY successful with online dating in Thailand.
You can use the following advice to meet and attract beautiful Thai women whether you are in Thailand or sitting on your sofa in America.
Enter the mind of Seven…
I’ll get straight to it, online dating in America is useless. The girls are ugly, uneducated, and are mostly looking for a free diner.
(Unless you are looking for a 40 year old woman who has kids and a flabby stomach, forget about online dating in America.)
In Thailand, online dating is a different story. The women you meet online are attractive, educated, and well worth your time.
Last year in Bangkok I first experimented with online dating for one month.
These Are My Results:
- Throughout the month I had more “dates” than I could handle
- I only met and slept with attractive women between the ages of 18 and 25
- I eventually met a girlfriend who I stayed with for 6 months
Not bad for one month…
I will now walk you through exactly what I did and what I learned.
Online Dating Websites:
Although there are many different online dating websites, I only recommend three sites. Two are paid and the other is free (They are listed in order):
1- Paid Website: Thai Cupid (About $30 a month)
2- Paid Website: Thai Love Lines (About $30 a month)
3- Free Website: Date in Asia
Use a combination of these three. It’s MUCH easier to meet up with women from the paid website due to the fact that they paid for the opportunity to meet men. Not to mention, the quality of women are much higher with paid sites.
GoT Tip: Only focus on the larger cities in Thailand like *Bangkok*, Pattaya, Phuket, and Chiang Mai. This is where you’ll find the cutest Thai women.
The Types of Girls You Will Meet:
There are three types of girls you will meet with online dating in Thailand.
Type 1- Relationship Girls
These are the girls that want to find a future boyfriend. They tend to have 9 – 5 jobs and are not interested in Thai guys.
Type 2- Gold Diggers
Beware of this type and stay away from them. They won’t have a job. Their only job is to try to hook men from overseas to send them money by using different cons.
They will spend time with you on webcam chat and talk with you on the phone everyday.
But eventually she will tell you a story about her mom being sick and needing money for the hospital. She will attempt to guilt you into sending money.
Note: Gold Diggers will also try to say that they need money to pay rent. “I love you and want to wait for you, but I need money. I not want to work for sex like my sister…” This is very common to hear with Gold Diggers.
Type 3- Lady Boys
You’ll see this more on DateinAsia than Thai Cupid. But most of the Ladyboys will say they are Ladyboys in their profile. If you are not sure, just ask. They will tell you the truth “most” of the time.
Obviously with online dating in Thailand, we’ll focus on the first type of girl.
The Golden Rule:
Online Dating is a numbers game. Do not fall in love with one profile and hope that she responds to you. You may only receive one response out of ten messages sent.
I knew a girl who was on DateinAsia. In one week she received 200 messages from men.
Play the numbers game. Have a template message and send the same message to every girl that catches your eye. Don’t waste too much time on one profile until you have received a response from your first message.
MY SECRETS FOR ONLINE DATING IN THAILAND…
Step 1: Create a Profile:
This is the most basic part. Create a profile on all three websites. Say a few of sentences about yourself and post a couple photos.
If you only want to focus on one site, I highly recommend: Thai Cupid
Step 2: Blast Every Cute Girl:
Search for girls in the age group you prefer. Personally I like my women between the ages of 18 and 25.
Sort by women who have recently logged into their accounts. You only want to send a message to girls who logged on within the last week.
Have a template message ready that you will send to every girl. I’ve used a few of them, but this is one that worked well for me.
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My name is Seven and I think you are adorable. I’d like to talk with you…
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Basic, straight to the point, and most have never been called adorable before.
This is just an example of something you can use. I would recommend changing it up a bit so it suits you. Just keep it short, some of these girls are not great with English.
GoT Tip 1: You’ll get a higher ratio of responses if she is “online” when the message is sent.
GoT Tip 2: You’ll also get a higher ratio of responses from the women with a paid membership.
Step 3: Skype and MSN
Once you get a response from the girl and have sent one or two messages back and forth, your next step is to get her off of the dating website and talking with you on a different platform.
We do this because as long as she is still logged in, she is getting messages from other guys. You want her isolated so it’s just you and her talking.
I prefer Skype or MSN messenger.
Skype is great. You chat with text and then start a video chat. This way you can see if her photo is accurate on how she really looks.
MSN is great because you can play games like tic-tac-toe while chatting with her. Good for building comfort and fun.
Once you have her on video chat, setting up a date for the next day is easy.
Step 4: Date
Depending on what you like to do, you can meet for coffee at Starbucks or meet up later in the evening after dinner for a drink.
I prefer the later option. It is more difficult to take her home in the daytime from Starbucks than it is from a bar after a few Mojitos.
This will depend on you. I prefer the one date routine, but some guys prefer to take it slow.
(Note: Never meet up for dinner. If she is boring, you don’t want to be forced to sit through mind dulling conversation in broken English for an hour. Been there, done that, and it fucking sucks!)
Step 5: Up To You
Rinse and repeat, or keep the one you’re with.
My final bit of advice,
“Just because she is the hottest girl you have ever fucked, keep your options open. In Thailand you are the prize and beautiful women are a dime a dozen!”
Posted on Gods of Thailand December 7, 2011 in Online Dating, Thai Girls, Tips & Advice